She Told Me There Was No Way He Was Coming Back. He Proposed Last Night.

The Astrology chart always knows best.

If there’s one thing I enjoy in life, almost to an orgasmic level, it’s being told I was right.

I’m an Aquarius. Pls, don’t kinkshame

So, when I get a phone call or an email from one of my clients telling me the magic words?

You bet I will share this magnificent tingling of my every brain cell with you.

Normally, when I get love readings, I have to brace myself to tell someone some hard truth mixed with love, but as a human being and a woman, I understand that sometimes the question: “is he ever coming back?” Is not really about the person.

It is a yearning for closure the client never got.

Other times? It is just about speaking the feelings out loud especially frustration, fear and grief and these are all an important process in moving on.

These readings that are about letting go are -contrary to popular belief- the easiest to do. The readings that are the hardest? The ones that are about karmic lessons through distance.

One of the major tests we have in karmic relationships is the ability to let go to be able to search for ourselves and then come back to reconnect.

I often welcome my clients to say whatever they feel during the session, but this particular client? She argued back.

No problem! I like fiery spirits and she had a lot of fire in her chart.

Sometimes, this arguing is also a way to cope with the frustration of the situation. The mixed signals and confusion breakups create.

Once the feelings are out, the prediction settles in and becomes a little easier to accept even with a little suspicion.

I believe as human beings, our brains are not programmed to know the future. It can create more chaos than good. This is something I know first hand.

When we know the future, multiple mixed feelings come up. No matter what, a part of us will try to fight it and take control and this is when we self sabotage a little.

When I made this prediction. I knew that it involves a lot more than just saying when and how he will come back. it involved deconstructing a deep sense of grief and betrayal around love and explaining why karmic breakups happen.

It is a huge misconception that break ups are punishments. It feels personal. We feel abandoned and naturally, we start to feel like something is wrong with us or with our partners which translates into “something is wrong with my choices and patterns.”

Well, in some cases that’s true, but in other cases, it couldn’t be further from the truth.

Some of us are destined to go through karmic periods where we have to meet our own needs first before we are ready to be loved by someone else.

In other cases, there’s the un-exorcised spirit of past betrayal and hurt that was shoved deep down and is coming out to play in our dynamics that have to be released before we reconnect with love with an open spirit that knows you deserve love instead of questioning it with paranoia or emotionally unavailable partners.

When my client came to me two years ago, she was dealing with the grief of her life not going the way she imagined.

Nothing was satisfying including work, ambition, family and by extension, her relationship.

She was convinced after the break up, they would never speak again. Torn between the frustration of her life and grief of the relationship, she had to cope with it through believing he did not see her worth, so he would never come back.

The chart, however, was clear. He would be back in contact quite soon. The relationship needed work, but they had something solid there.

Fast forward to last night, I receive the email with the golden words. I asked her permission to share with you the happy news that she will be getting married circa 2027.

Love relationships are complicated. Some are meant to teach us to find better and some are meant to teach us to trust our connections better. It just depends on what part of intimacy we are karmically in the process of opening up to.

I make it an absolute point to tell the truth no matter what. If what you need to hear in the moment is leave him, I will tell you.

If what you need to hear today is you need to work on it, you will hear it from me.